Ok, update time.
I think I have pretty much decided that DAK is going to be the park of choosing for the day. (Now nobody let me go changing that on myself!) Lunch at Flame Tree sounds like a pretty good choice to me.
We can be done with the park by late afternoon/early evening (park closes at 5), so we will have plenty of time to give us options for dinner. As for where to go to eat... well, uh... try not to laugh, but I think I've got it narrowed down to 9 choices (I know, right?). I feel like Lou when someone emails him a question on "Where do you recommend going to eat on our trip?" I think this is going to be decided when I call up the dining folks tomorrow and start finding out which options are not available because I waited too long. But at least it will take a lot of the decision making out of the picture.
I'm still thinking I would like to watch Wishes from the Poly, but I can possibly be swayed into something else depending on where we eat and at what time, etc. I have also looked into an evening at the River Roost Lounge at PO Riverside (Yeeha Bob Jackson's stomping grounds), which looks like it could be a good time. He is playing on the 4th at Port Orleans (according to his website I found after some poking around), and his show runs from 8:30 to midnight. Of course Wishes has to be at 10:00... right smack dab in the middle of his show, otherwise I would say we could see some of both.
As for any additional time we may have betten DAK and dinner and whatever time we call it quits for the night, I figure why overplan? Let's just wing those parts. Lord knows if I try to plan those details too, I'd be planning my June 4th trip until the 6th of July!
My guest list as it stands are myself and (probably) two coworkers (two I know for sure can't make it, and one is supposed to get back to me when she gets home tonight... but I'm pretty sure she's coming), and then you DWT... errr, I mean WDW Radio folks (I still can't get used to the new name!), so I'm thinking we're looking at a party of 3-5 during the day, and 6 for dinner and any after hours entertainment.