That is too funny. You are right about laughing, if you can laugh at yourself, that shows confidence in who you are- flaws, goofs and all. If you can't laugh at yourself, then everyone on the planet will laugh at you which is terrible for the self confidence. Since I have such a strange face with highly mobile expressions, I am just used to laughing at me or using facial humor to make a point, life is short laugh at whatever is available.
You and DH will have such a romantic holiday oh la la. ANy kid free time is good, with in reason, of course. Spa treatments sound great. Who wouldn't want a massage and mani-pedi? Maybe you and DH can get a beach front side by side massage, that would set up a fantasti evening.