Awe! How kind. :grin:
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It is difficult not to care if that is how you are wired. But a learned behavior over time is accepting what you cannot change and shrugging it off as their loss.
The 3 DIL's married to my MIL & FIL three sons learned a similar lesson many years ago. Now it is kinda whatever...
how do you feel about giveing Sera $ so she can go to WDW. the only reason whay i want to do this is this is Sera's honeymoon so getting to not go is a BIG thing.
You are so nice Nicholas. Unfortunately this is one of the few time $$$ won't fix the problem.
Howdy gang! :wave:
Postin' from bore-o-ramaville.
Been a pretty downer of a day business-wise here. We thought we'd do a lot better, considering how the store did LY (Last Year).
Have an open-close (11a-7p) at TDS tomorrow. :mickeykid
I have kinda' a funny story for ya'.
One time this girl was tryin' to play me and another guy against each other. It was cute for a little while and then it just got annoying and stupid and tiring. When I bugged out and told the other guy she was all his, she got enraged and yelled out in front of a large group of people, as I was walkin' away, that... "NO guy has EVER rejected me before!" As I continued to walk away I turned and replied... "one has now."
The point is, I cared more about myself than to put myself through that kinda' garbage. It's not so much about learning not to care, to me anyway, it's more about learning to discern who the right ones to care about are.
And some of us, unfortunately, that may have had that down early on for the most part, sometimes have to relearn it the hard way.
OK gang, time to shutter Boreville and head for the ranch.
Have a Magical...! :mickeykid :wave:
Okay, what is the worst that could happen? They ignore you, they say Hi, and you get to show them your truly amazing sense of humor?
Worst case scenario-they don't speak back. So what, you took a step, and it has VERY little to do with you if they are not interested. Very little.
1. my dad threatened my life ( i thought he meant it) if I talked to a boy before 16. So I ignored them.
2. they are probably as nervous as you are. Tell them a lame joke or interesting fact. Break the ice, gotta do it sometime, may as well be now.
3. ACT like it doesn't matter. Self confidence is as much of a mind set as it is a reality.
4. The world does not end of they say NO, ignore you or laugh. It goes on, so do you and you might be missing a fun person to at least hanf out with. Don't let fear hold you back, cause if you have fear now, it gets bigger and scarier next time.
That is the best I can do there. Same things I tell my daughter about new situations. If the worst that can happen, happens, it is still temporary.