[QUOTE=HauntedGabe;992589]She is aware that he made promises, and shared them. And she knows he let the cat out at a family gathering. Her problem is she also drops the occasional overshare, and one of them is "having a truly southern family" which to her means the man goes to the womans side, and ignores his. That is a very Alabama thing. Weird, but I see a lot of it, especially with people from the country. It is nearly as if there is a law, that men ONLY hang with the wife's family after marraige. WEIRD.Move to California young man.
Ewe. I find that even creepier. WTH! And ya wonder why the kid is messed up? Will the DD be with the youth group too?
No, totally different set up now with the youth.
Ewe. And now the "family" knows he didn't keep his promise. Ewe. Way too much family. Most people do blame the girl. Having an adult girl, not fond of that practice.
Overshare is what he did when he blopped that at the thanksgiving meal-accidentally . He should NOT talk on his cell while among his family.
Well you know me...If I was that girl, I'd be rude too after all the family and extended family had so much to say about their personal life. Boundaries people.
He brings that part on himself, it is like he ALWAYS drops a bombshell usually while on a cell to his friends at a family gathering. No one wants to know-but he must want them too. I told him to shut up. SHE is actually worse about it.
Likely if she is good or evil she is aware of all the family input and the promises about his and her life. She is in a war over who gets to control the young man. Likely if everyone just backed off and let them have their relationship he wouldn't have been compelled to marry her sooner. At that age he might have even moved on over the two years. Unfortunately he got pushed and now he is pushing back.