Re: A dark YET light hearted discussion
Me being one of them. Thought near our family paver stone. However your comment of carrying in the Urn gave me the Willies. This week I saw a news clip for Urns. It is a real life replica of the persons full head/neck. The top of the head is removable to put ashes in. I found it so creepity. And as you said walking in with an urn my thought went to someone coming in carrying one of these "new" urns and heading (unexpected pun) straight to the Haunted Mansion.
But ya, you are right, if it ashes are released in any area that would be cleaned nightly or even during a rehab, your ashes are likely to wind up in a land-fill or a water treatment plant. There are water vacuums that are placed in bottoms of pool type areas that have the suction to clean debris from entire olympic type pools, so you are kinda booted out of your final resting place.
Some people are like Slinkies.
They aren't really good for anything,
but they still bring a smile to my face when I push them down a flight of stairs.
Friends are Gods way of apologizing to us for our families.